A new person and an update on my dating and ROCD
I remember when I was 18 and my first boyfriend broke it off with me, I changed my hair and the way I dressed. I became who I wanted to be there and then. It was as if I had cleansed myself and got rid of all my pain.
Today I am doing something just as stupid..
I am dying my hair a simple dark brown. The feeling of feeling different, like a new person works for me sometimes.
I am realizing a feeling of climbing that ladder again. I mean I am not out of the woods when it comes to my depression and ROCD, not at all. But I have taken two steps forward today. That is a reward in it’s self. Right?
The guy who I am dating, well today is the first time him and I have not smsed each other for a whole day. I waited thinking that maybe he needs some time because all I have done is talk about OCD 24.7. I sent him a sms and asked him whats up and whats going on. He replied saying: Im just busy and I am quite too. Isn’t that better than speaking about OCD 24.7? And better for you?
So I am happy to say we are not over. At the same time I feel I am a bit sad it is not over as then I could take a rest from my OCD. But I reaaally like him, and he is really trying his hardest to hang on to me. It shows me a side of him I did not know was there, a good side. A side that makes me feel warm and special. I feel lucky. If I haven’t managed to push him away after all this OCD I have hot him with, he must really care for me and see something in me worth the while.